OVERCOMING PERSONAL CONFLICTS: "MY OWN INSECURITIES IN LIFE"
MANY PEOPLE HAVE THEIR OWN INSECURITIES IN THEIR OWN LIVES. JUST LIKE ME, I HAD MY OWN INSECURITIES IN LIFE SINCE I WAS SEVEN YEARS OLD. ITS ALL STARTED WHEN ME AND MY MOM GOT CAUGHT BY THE FIRE INCIDENT IN OUR HOUSE BEFORE. AFTER THAT INCIDENT, MANY THINGS ABOUT ME HAS CHANGED. MY PHYSICAL APPEARANCE CHANGED, ESPECIALLY MY SKIN. AND SINCE THAT DAY THE WAY I DEALING TO THE OTHER PEOPLE AND THE WAY HOW I SEE MYSELF BEFORE CHANGED AS WELL.
AT FIRST, I CAN'T ACCEPT THE FACT IT REALLY HAPPENED TO US. BECAUSE OF WHAT HAPPENED I HAVE A LOT OF THINGS THAT I CAN'T DO NOW AND I LOSE A LOT OF OPPORTUNITIES BEFORE AND I HAVE ASHAMED OF MYSELF TILL NOW. BECAUSE OF WHAT HAPPENED BEFORE THE PEOPLE CHANGED HOW THEY LOOK OR TREAT ME AS A PERSON, I DON'T KNOW WHY BUT FOR ME, IT HURTS TO FELT THAT WAY BEFORE.
THAT WAS WHERE AND WHEN IT ALL STARTED OF MY INSECURITIES IN LIFE. I BECAME MORE SHY, AFRAID, AND A WEAK PERSON. BECAME SHY TO TALK AND MEET THE OTHER PEOPLE AROUNDS ME OR I BACAME MORE SHY MAKE SOME FRIENDS. AFRAID TO BE ALONE ANYWHERE I GO BEFORE CAUSE IT'S HARD FOR ME TO SEE THE OTHER PEOPLE THAT NOTICED ME BECAUSE OF MY SKIN AND TALKED BEHIND ME. I BACAME A WEAKPERSON CAUSE I CAN'T FIGHT FOR MYSELF ALONE AGAINST THE OTHER PEOPLE. I LOSE MY SELF CONFIDENCE BECAUSE OF WHAT HAPPENED, I ALWAYS FEEL LIKE GIVING UP BEFORE.
IT HURTS SO MUCH KNOWING THE FACT THAT IT WONT GO BACK FROM THE PAST TO MAKE IT AGAIN FROM THE START. BUT I KNOW THAT ALL OF THESE HAPPENS FOR GOD'S OWN GOOD REASONS. I REALIZED THAT EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR GOD'S REASONS FOR US IN THE FUTURE.
WAYS TO OVERCOME PERSONAL CONFLICT: "MY OWN INSECURITIES IN LIFE"
* THINK POSITIVE- YOU NEED TOTHINK POSITIVE LIKE ALL OF THESE HAPPENS FOR A GOOD REASONS.
* BELIEVE IN YOURSELF- BELIEVE IN YOURSELF THAT YOU CAN OVERCOME THIS INSECURITIES THAT YOU HAVE AND ALL THE PROBLEMS THAT WOULD COME IN THE FUTURE.
* BELIEVE IN GOD- ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT GOD IS ALWAYS BY YOUR SIDE TO GUIDE AND GUARD YOU FROM OTHERS.
* LOVE YOURSELF- LOVE YOURSELF BEFORE OTHERS, LOVE YOURSELF THAN OTHERS AND ACCEPT YOUR FLAWS AND SUCH.
* REFLECT- BEFORE THE DAY ENDS RECALL THE THINGS THAT HAPPENED TO YOU EARLIER IN THAT DAY EVEN IF IT'S BAD OR GOOD AND REFLECT BY YOURSELF.
* PRAY ALWAYS- PRAY EVERYTIME YOU THINK OR YOU FEEL GOOD OR BAD. THANK HIM AND ASK FOR HIS HELP IF YOU THINK LIKE GIVING UP.
* BE INSPIRED- FIND SOME REASONS FOR YOU TO BE INSPIRED IN DOING EVERYTHINGIN LIFE.
* STUDY HARD- FOCUS ALL YOUR ATTENTION THROUGH YOUR STUDY IT'S FOR YOUR OWN FUTURE AS WELL.
* TO GOD BE THE GLORY *
